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End overthinking by tackling its root cause

Overthinking is now shared so readily as a problem that most people believe ‘it’s just how some of us humans work’. That you have to learn to live with it.…

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Quit Fixing Feelings – Clear Reactions

“Feelings don’t need solutions” It was a pivotal moment for me back in 2018 when Piers Thurston first enlightened me of this fact – feelings don’t need solutions. But it…

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Get Your Emotional Code Running Smoothly

Your human system works perfectly! We had our neighbours round yesterday. One of them’s a doctor. He was telling us that about 90% of Achilles injuries are now left to…

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Body Truth: For Strategic Advantage

The body doesn’t lie. Trust the body over any cognitive rationale. When you’re carrying negative reactions, the body literally cannot BS you. It shows you – 100% reliably – when…

When you’re delivering big

Whether it’s a big project…a culture change…stepping into your next-level role….preparing to speak on your biggest stage yet…setting yourself up for a successful exit. These big moves test you. They’re meant…

In The Business of Healthy Masculinity

There are two ways change happens… 1. You keep pushing on through, ignoring the fact it’s getting worse, using more control to try and get back on track, till you…

Are You A Stressed High-Achiever?

From frantic, hectic, and stressed to spacious, calm and clear. If you’re a high achiever, you might have noticed that as soon as you ‘block time in the calendar’ to…

Why You Should Stop Talking And Start Solving

How to know if talking about your problems isn’t solving them… Would you dig up a weed from your garden by standing around talking about the weed? No. You’d get…

This Is What I’m Leading For

Imagine a world where we’re led by leaders who have risen above playground name-calling and judgements… who lead with action more than they speak in rhetoric… who have stepped out…

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Men – please don’t follow women down the healing route

Conscious men are – brilliantly – increasing in numbers. But I’m concerned they’re following women into a world of ‘healing’ that doesn’t solve their problems. Only wraps them in nicer…

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Speaking Up Responsibly

I wrote this piece in the context of world wars, a politician being shot, and increasing division between ‘them’ and ‘us. Walking on eggshells feels limiting to you. And limits…

There Is No Actual Threat

It’s time to wake up to the fact you’re managing a threat response – when there is no threat. Last week I wrote to you about the fact we’re ‘managing’…

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Stop Battling Reactions, Clean Them Out

I saw a post on LinkedIn recently that said: “When tension spikes, control feels safe — but it shuts people down. Real leadership is presence over proving, and listening over fixing.”…

Would you rather be at work than at home with the kids?

Would you rather be at work than at home with the kids? When my kids were little I couldn’t wait to get back to work after maternity leave. I couldn’t…

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Making A Difference Through Your Investment

Not only do you make a difference in your life, and the lives of those around you, but now – I’m delighted to announce – when you purchase any Mace Energy Method…

The Hard <=> Easy Game

Everything is in a cycle of hard then easy then hard then… when you see this you get to flow with life effortlessly. Aided by the Mace Energy Method. Recently…

From Burdened to Light

From ‘pulled in two directions’ to…“light…grounded…obvious…effortless…presence…playfulness…more effective…exponential impact!” How awesome! Having just recently shared Juliet’s experience, I now get to come back again with another incredible conversation! This time with…

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This Is Why Fortune Favours The Bold

There are two kinds of people who seek help – the desperate and the courageous. I work with the latter. They don’t *need* to change. Their life is, by all…

It’s Really Incredibly Simple

I fell in love with the simplicity of the Mace Energy Method. Because all you need to know is:1. There’s something you don’t like.2. You want it to change.Simple!X No more…

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Weeding Your Emotional Garden

After your Foundation Sessions, you get to choose whether to continue your Mace Energy Method journey. The promise of the Foundation Sessions is that we solve the one or two…

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