Conscious men are – brilliantly – increasing in numbers. But I’m concerned they’re following women into a world of ‘healing’ that doesn’t solve their problems. Only wraps them in nicer overlays.
Round and round the same loops. Branded as ‘ascension’ but actually just reinforcement.
It gets worse – not because you’re getting higher and the contrast is greater (I used to believe this, and teach this – I’m sorry) – but because you’re feeding energy to these identities, making them stronger and the reactions more extreme.
Now I’m seeing more men – especially the entrepreneurial kind – following women into rituals and ceremonies and past life stories.
Crying is signalled as a sign of ‘important healing’. Vulnerable, shaky shares validated as evidence of breakthrough.
But in my experience – no. These experiences don’t solve. They short-term soothe. Long-term reinforce.
They can take off a layer but they don’t delete the whole identity.
Now, I can’t make you believe this. I don’t want you to believe this.
Instead, check your experience.
If you’re a man who has a husband or wife who does the healing thing – check. From your perspective, are their patterns going? Or are they circling the same loops?
If you’re not sure, ask them. Share some examples of what you’ve seen from the outside, and ask them how those experiences *feel* on the inside.
Do they feel different?
If they say they feel less reactive – is that a numb non-reaction? Or a truly peaceful non-reaction? This distinction matters.
Are they experiencing more joy and aliveness and increased energy?
Are they putting in effort to ‘be good / kind / conscious / grateful’ or is that happening naturally?
If you’re in a healing experience yourself – check in your own experience. Is it actually getting better, or are you circling?
Getting better looks like:
- More ease.
- More joy.
- More aliveness.
- More adventurous spirit.
- More connection, less judgement.
- More courage, less doubt.
- More real, less performing.
- More simplicity.
- More obviousness.
- More clear decision-making.
More effective action.
In Truth…
Presence is what heals. Pure unadulterated presence.
That IS available in many and varied circumstances. Even quite randomly as you walk down the street!
But when a healing modality doesn’t leverage this fact, it’s not maximising the opportunity.
And when that presence is ensnared and entangled. Riddled with the resistance of negative identities…it’s hard to truly be in a space of unadulterated presence.
Again, I know. I tried.
Just the other week – always the open-minded one – I went to an event and engaged in shadow work. It didn’t solve. It either activated or fed a negative identity – agitated, antsy, irritated, unsettled. I actually solved that last week with the Mace Method and felt like myself again! Phew!
In the Mace Energy Method, we leverage presence on purpose.
We sweep up that resistance and tangle, along with the rest of the negative traits (the unwanted thoughts, feelings and behaviours).
We delete the reaction that keeps it feeling like a threat.
There Are Other Ways
But I still haven’t found anything that’s as:
- Fast
- Precise
- Permanent
And I do continue to keep my Spidey senses open to possibilities.
So for now…
Men – if you want to take a shortcut – please don’t follow women down the healing route.
Instead – delete out the source of your problems with me.
THEN see if you want to do ceremonies, rituals, plant medicine, or any other healing-type activities.
Whatever you do – you’re never getting it wrong.
But if you want to take the shortcut – start with the Mace Energy Method now.
Revealing the real you, Helen
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I work with high achieving leaders and entrepreneurs. They’re in the world: doing, achieving and creating. Everything looks good from the outside. But inside there’s self doubt, imposter syndrome, unworthiness.
- They feel the weight and pressure of holding so much for so many people.
- They feel frustrated when they know they shouldn’t.
- They feel stressed when they know it lowers their effectiveness and breaks their relationships.
- They feel unhappy and lacking, despite how much they have.
And they haven’t been able to change.
Until they come into my world and we use the Mace Energy Method to get them free.