“I thought I’d dealt with all my stuff before – but I realised it
had never really gone but just tidied up in the background of my life…”
Keep reading for this client’s shifts…
A practical check point for you today.
In the last blog post I wrote about being all-in with life, vs dabbling and skirting on the edges.
It’s not wrong to dabble and skirt…you’re doing it because it makes perfect sense to you. And you’ll do that until it stops making sense. But I found on my journey it’s really helped me to have people shining a light saying ‘you don’t have to do life that way’.
So that’s what I’m here for today. Shining your light on what’s available so you can look, see how it is for you, and choose.
This simple navigation system is always telling you if you’re living as the real, honest, all-in you. Or if you’re living from the tangle of a negative identity that dabbles and skirts.
You can apply this to any situation and any relationship in life. I’ve done it based on a session with a coach / helper / practitioner of some kind. Mostly because I’ve had lots of practice on both sides of this relationship, and I’ve experienced the shift from a negative identity way of being to an increasing and increasing level of our all-in way of being.
Here’s what it looks like…
From a negative identity:
1. Pay for the service with uncertainty.
2. Question whether you’ve done the right thing.
3. Start preparing yourself for disappointment and that it probably won’t work for you.
4. Have a session.
5. See some differences – but it isn’t perfect – not the idea of perfect you had in your head.
6. Feel disappointed.
7. Make that mean something personal and draw conclusions –
– It must be me that’s the problem. I can’t do it right.
– It must be the coach / practitioner that didn’t do it right.
– It must be the process that doesn’t work.
8. Feel discouraged.
9. Step away.
10. Jump to something else to half commit to, repeat the cycle, get discouraged again.
11. Repeat.
12. Give up because it seems nothing really works for you.
From the real you:
1. Pay for the service with certainty.
2. Know that you’ve done the right thing – you’ll either get what you want or you’ll learn.
3. Start preparing, imagining the great things that could come from this.
4. Have a session.
5. See some differences.
6. Feel like this is moving you in the right direction.
7. Check this is still the coach / approach to use.
8. Yes – feels good.
9. Continue, with commitment to yourself for the long term.
10. Something changes – check – is this still the coach / approach to use?
– No
Take all you’ve gained from this experience, with gratitude, into your next step.
OR
– Not sure
Healthy conversation with the coach / practitioner to learn, discover and clarify your yes or no.
11. Repeat
12. Keep growing, evolving, learning – enjoying more and more real you.
With every iteration of the real-you cycle. You shift the balance from negativity to the real you. From dabbling to all-in. Feeling better and better with every step.
So how is it for you?
Already doing this? – Amazing! Celebrate yourself!
Not doing this and you want to? – Have loving compassion for yourself. And then choose what you want to do. If it’s the Mace Energy Method – I’ve got you.
You were doing this and got side-tracked? – Awesome honesty. Time to recommit – what do you want now?
Moving in the direction of
the real you feels increasingly good.
Helen used the Mace Energy Method to take a paint-stripper to my negative identities: quiet beliefs that had not been seen or examined for years but just lived with subconsciously: A belief I was fundamentally unattractive after a boy laughed when I asked him out, when aged 15, was just blitzed.
How did I know? Because I’ve not had that thought since. There is no question about whether I am attractive or not. I just am as I am.
And when I went out dancing, I never checked the mirror once all night. I never wondered when I would be invited onto the dance floor. I never rated my appearance against the other people in the room. ALL THE TYPICAL THOUGHTS AND BEHAVIOURS JUST WEREN’T THERE.
Can you imagine how good it is to feel clean and clear and free to be yourself? That’s exactly how it feels after a Mace Energy Method session with Helen.
And the best bit is, it lasts. Every negative identity that has been deleted, has stayed gone.
Helen is absolutely right. She knows it is the last word in transformation, and now I’ve experienced it too.
I am already compiling my negative identity list to take back to Helen and I would urge anyone and everyone to do the same. She and the Mace Energy Method really are the best.”
How do you want to feel?
The real you responds and feels good.
Which do you want to go all-in with, for your life?
Book Your Foundation Sessions.
Not ready for sessions yet?
1. Discover more about the Mace Energy Method.
Buy “Causism” for a discounted price from me here.
2. Research online.
Explore the Mace Energy Method website here.
3. Just carry on as you are.
You can’t force yourself to change. But when you’re ready to feel good again, you know where I am.
I’m Ready!
I love helping others feel settled and free and joyful!
And Mace makes that possible.
Ready to get free of reactivity?
The Mace Energy Method is that solution.
That reactivity that just happens, that you can’t control, that nothing else is getting to.
This is exactly what I was looking for the solution to, and it arrived! For me, and for you, and for all of us – so that we ripple more good feelings into the world.
you can fully enjoy your life.
Book your Foundation Sessions here.