Your natural state is all-in. Negative identities create half hearted, passive, doubting, and easily discouraged. The Mace Energy Method clears the negative identities to get you back to your all-in state. Creating the life you want.
Do you skirt around the edges? Do you dabble in the shallows? Do you passively absorb rather than actively engage?
These are all the result of trying to avoid certain feelings.
You don’t do the thing because you don’t want to feel like a failure.
You don’t do the thing because you don’t want to feel judged for getting it wrong.
You don’t do the thing because you don’t want to be laughed at if you fail.
You don’t do the thing because you don’t want to feel disappointed if you don’t achieve it.
You don’t engage fully because you don’t want to feel discouraged if it doesn’t fully deliver.
This is a lose-lose game
Because how can anything fully deliver if you’re not fully in?
How can you move towards what you want if you don’t go for it?
How can you realise you don’t get laughed at unless you do the thing and fail?
How can you realise your pre-judgement is way worse than the actual experience, unless you do the thing and get some things wrong?
How can you know that you can handle feelings of failure, unless you go all-in and fail?
You get back what you put in
The more you go all-in on forward-momentum action, the more you get back — in all flavours of the emotional range. And this is living!
When you realise the level of delight you can handle, you also realise the level of disappointment you can handle.
When you can celebrate what you’re great at, you can also feel the sadness when you get stuff wrong while you learn.
Are you feeling the logic of this?
When you keep some things at arms length, you keep everything at arms length.
So do you see that avoidance of the feelings ISN’T creating a good life. It’s creating a skirting, dabbling, getting-by life?
And therefore do you see that the more you’re IN life, the more you get back?
But I can’t do it
So you get it. But something’s stopping you.
Do you feel like there’s some invisible force preventing you from taking the action steps required to go all-in?
Do you feel like you can have all the ideas, but implementing them is impossible?
Do you feel like you see the potential and you know it makes sense to give more of yourself…but it’s like you don’t know how.
I get it
I’ve done all of it. I was avoiding feeling disappointment, judgement, failure. And I wanted more of the good stuff.
I wanted to take more positive action, to create the life and business I saw others having. The kind I wanted. But I just couldn’t. It was like I’d lost the instruction manual for that aspect of our human system.
The ‘how to go all-in’ button was broken. And I felt frustrated.
The idea of going ‘all-in’ seemed impossible for me.
So what changes it?
Simply getting clear of the negativity that stops you going all-in.
It is only doubt, uncertainty and discouragement that send you off-track.
And NONE of these are the real you.
I don’t mind what modality you use to clear this stuff.
I just love seeing people get free of it.
So that instead of being all-in on why you can’t, you get to shift to being all-in on what you can. You get to put your all-in attention on what you want. And what you enjoy.
Unless you clear the negative identities it will feel continue to feel personal. It will continue to feel like getting things wrong, failing and not fully achieving are saying something about who you are as a person.
So — until that’s cleared — of course you’re not going to take the steps and make the moves by going all-in.
It looks like a reputational disaster zone!
But if you want things to change, you do have to start taking steps.
And the more steps you take, the more the real you gets back in charge of your life. And the more all-in on the good stuff starts happening. Because that is your natural state.
Does this happen after two sessions?
Not in my experience, no.
But do you know what?
The people who go all-in with Mace get incredible results, compared to
those who don’t.
So — if the Mace Energy Method is the thing for you to go all-in with — I SO look forward to getting you free!
With love, Helen
P.S. Get back to your all-in natural state here.
“I have definitely been feeling so much lighter and clearer since doing the Mace process with you Helen. It really is a powerful process for clearing up negative identity patterns, and your calm presence was very supportive in creating a safe space for the process to flow.
I have found that since we completed the sessions it is much easier to detect and be with any small residual patterns of resistance when they arise. There was a momentary ‘blip’ when my daughter and family left after the New Year and the house became quiet again, but I discovered there was no need to get caught up in that old pattern associated with being alone!
I would definitely recommend you, and the Mace process, to anyone that wants to clear their negative identity patterns.”
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1. Discover more about the Mace Energy Method.
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2. Research online.
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3. Just carry on as you are.
You can’t force yourself to change. But when you’re ready to feel good again, you know where I am.