From frantic, hectic, and stressed to spacious, calm and clear.
If you’re a high achiever, you might have noticed that as soon as you ‘block time in the calendar’ to keep space for you – it’s almost instantly crashed by something else.
Either you crash it all by yourself. Or you bend for that person. Adjust for that project. Say ‘just this once’ I’ll sacrifice my time for this.
And then a few months later you take your next holiday and realise you achieved zero of those ‘me time’ blocks.
You vow to protect your time when you get back into work…
So here we are – a couple of months back since summer holidays….
Did that work for you?
Or did you block-and-then-crash again?
Maybe you didn’t even get as far as blocking.
I’ve been there. I get it.
Now…
If you’re courageous enough to have acknowledged that for yourself… 👏
And you’re courageous enough to say you want it to change… 👏
You get to make that a reality. 🥳
🎉 Like my client who is now embodying self love – not just thinking it’s a nice idea. She actually feels genuine love for herself.
=> It’s showing up in not flogging herself to death for her work.
=> She’s taking time for herself in the morning and in the evenings.
=> What used to be a feeling of ‘constantly-on’ and always working every available hour…she’s now spending her evenings eating with her husband, exercising and relaxing with the TV.
=> She realised ‘lots on’ could feel enlivening instead of stressful or overwhelming.
=> She’s living the fact that she has the power to consider if someone else’s ‘urgent’ is really urgent or if there’s just a conversation to clarify actual timescales.
=> And she feels genuine gratitude rise up. Not because she should because that’s what personal development books say. It’s just naturally there.
She achieved all this from just 4 weeks in my core reset programme.
(Plus this wasn’t even the original problem she came with – this was all bonus benefits!)
The solution is right here when you’re ready to be a spacious high-achiever.
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I work with high achieving leaders and entrepreneurs. They’re in the world: doing, achieving and creating. Everything looks good from the outside. But inside there’s self doubt, imposter syndrome, unworthiness.
- They feel the weight and pressure of holding so much for so many people.
- They feel frustrated when they know they shouldn’t.
- They feel stressed when they know it lowers their effectiveness and breaks their relationships.
- They feel unhappy and lacking, despite how much they have.
And they haven’t been able to change.
Until they come into my world and we use the Mace Energy Method to get them free.