My business coach last week questioned a lot of what I was doing. There were thoughts there about whether I was getting it wrong, but there was no energy to them…
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Personally, I never understood it.
I would watch all these coaches and mentors, and follow their instagram accounts.
All these people who would say – You have big dreams! You know you’re so capable in your field. You know you’re meant for more than this.
And I would feel confused.
I didn’t know those things at all! And yet I was drawn to them and their content.
In fact I mostly felt incapable, like I was fluffing it, like I was just getting by, and like I just wanted to keep taking quiet steps over here in my little corner of doubt where nobody else would really see me.
Steps that felt like they were moving me in a good direction – I was busy, so surely I was taking good steps?!
And they looked good from the outside. That’s what matters, right?! You’ve got to look like you’ve got it all handled.
And I was doing all this, even though on the inside I was uncertain. Worried what people would think. So afraid of being laughed at and called stupid.
This dissonance couldn’t be sustained
And it led me to Mace.
Thank god!
Because the cleaner I’ve got with Mace, the more I’ve discovered that I DO actually have big dreams. I am actually capable. I do desire more than this.
*Shocked Face!*
Who knew!!?!
And now (with Mace alongside me for any unknown limitations) I can do more, create more, be more…confident in the certainty that anything negative that comes up can be handled quickly, easily and effectively – and be gone!
Do you also follow all these coaches and mentors and wonder why on earth you are drawn to their ‘big dreams!’ message? …Well maybe, just maybe, you are actually here to do big things…
And step one – clean out the crap that holds you back from living it.
Ready?
“The thing I’ve noticed is I don’t have any reactive feelings. When I experience thoughts that used to trigger difficult feelings in me, there now seems to be no energetic response; the thoughts simply pass me by.
My business coach last week questioned a lot of what I was doing. There were thoughts there about whether I was getting it wrong, but there was no energy to them. There was just an ‘oh yeah, I could do something differently.’ There were no feelings of being wrong, or thoughts of being an idiot. I wasn’t super confident either, there was just this sense of it being OK. No unicorns or rainbows, just OK. No worry or fear.
Just a practical recognition that I might change something.
In fact I feel kind of empty, a weird but nice quietness. At the weekend I could feel this complete OK-ness that anything that’s happening is OK. For example I reacted to my kids and in the past that would have sent me into judgements about not being enlightened enough yet. But now it feels like this is all part of it. And I can still learn from my experiences. I might learn something or change something and not react to the kids. But it didn’t send me into seeking.
In fact that’s a big change. I’m not seeking. I’m not trying to find problems. There’s nothing to get het up about.
For example, this morning I went to write a post for LinkedIn and I couldn’t think of anything. But it didn’t feel like a problem. Even the thought ‘Do I not care anymore?’ didn’t feel like a problem. I’m still getting my work done, I’m still coaching, and looking forward to coaching, my clients.
There’s less trying to get away from myself. There used to be a constant feeling that there was someone else I should be. And it’s gone.
It’s like there’s something significant that’s missing – but now it’s gone I realise I don’t need it! “
Get Free – Dream Big
I Want To Live My Dreams
Ready to see if ‘big dreams’ are actually for you?
Maybe there’s a reason you’ve always felt this drive and motivation to do more.
Maybe you are here to dream big, and create that in the world.
When you’re ready for an emotional clean-up…
Not ready for sessions yet?
1. Read more about the Mace Energy Method.
Buy “Causism” for a discounted price from me here.
2. Research online.
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3. Just carry on as you are.
You can’t force yourself to change. But when you’re ready to feel good again, you know where I am.
I’m Ready!
I love feeling settled and free and joyful.
I love helping others feel settled and free and joyful!
And Mace makes that possible.
Ready to get free of false limitations, resistances and reactivity?
The Mace Energy Method is that solution.
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If right now you get reactive in a way that’s beyond your control
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If you feel resistance when you think about stepping forward, being visible, being all that you can be in the world
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If you feel frustrated that you’re not getting more appreciation, more clients, more money for all your hard work….
When you clean out the emotional baggage you get to feel free to be you.
Living your life.
Expressing that through your work.
Your way.
Let’s make a bigger difference in the world – and that has to start with you.
I look forward to getting you free of the emotional triggers and false limitations that keep holding you back… so you can fully enjoy your one, unique life.
Book your Foundation Sessions here.
Revealing more of the real you
Helen