This is how it was for me.
I’d done so much work on healing, clearing and resolving, but none of it had got to the core problem. How did I know? Here’s some of what was going on…
- I felt frustrated that my community members weren’t engaging – I was desperate for them to like and comment and post…but nothing seemed to work.
- I couldn’t fully receive appreciation from clients – anything they did say was pretty much ignored, and what I did acknowledge still couldn’t really be felt as true. It was like I had to sound and look appreciative because that was the ‘right thing to do’ – even though it felt forced, like an act.
- I would take action in my business thinking – this will be the thing that makes the difference – this will be the thing that finally tips me into ‘successful’ – people will finally see me!….But it never was.
- I was in a pattern of ‘give and give and give’ thinking ‘one day they’ll see how generous I am’ or ‘one day this good will come back to me’ – but there was no sign of that. So instead I felt frustrated that nobody was giving it back to me.
Until I realised it was never coming back – it couldn’t come back – not for as long as I believed I had to keep proving myself to be good enough for it.
I was constantly compensating for not feeling good enough, by trying to do more to show that I was.
Of course that couldn’t work.
And then, to top it all off, I wasn’t earning anywhere near the money that others seemed to achieve so easily. I saw people putting an offer out and getting sign ups straight away. So why was it so hard for me?!
It was making me feel frustrated, helpless and like I might as well give up.
The frustration of it all meant I was looking to numerous coaches and guides for the answer. I spent ALOT of time and money trying to solve it.
I knew it was fundamentally something about me that was the problem, but I couldn’t figure out how to get at it, and change it.
Until…one day, someone told me about The Mace Energy Method and it instantly caught my attention. I’d never heard of it before. As soon as they told me it gets to the root cause and clears hidden identities, I knew it was for me! I’d had this feeling there was something going on, very deep, that nothing else was getting to. And this was it!
Something in me knew this was exactly what I needed, to change my repeating, unwanted patterns once and for all. I even booked in to train as a Mace Practitioner before I’d even had my first sessions, or seen the full effects of it. This is how convinced I was that this was exactly what I’d been looking for.
Since having sessions using The Mace Energy Method, I’ve discreated the core negative identities that were holding me back, along with many other triggering experiences that were knocking me off-track.
The result?
More ease, more lightness, more self-appreciation, more self worth, more natural confidence, and grounded-ness. More fun and experimentation. More learning. And better results in my business!
Once I’d discovered how effective and efficient the process was, and the more I felt that feeling of the real me, the more I wanted it.
Now…
- I feel responsible for myself, and know others are responsible for themselves. I’ve stopped trying to live my life by keeping others happy first.
- I don’t automatically assume it’s me that’s got something wrong, and that awful drop in my stomach that used to happen in those moments is gone. My over working and over giving has stopped.
- I have easy, obvious boundaries about what I’ll do and not do.
- I’m focusing on what matters in my business with an clarity that leaves me astounded I couldn’t see this before.
- Plus, now that I truly know I don’t need to keep striving to prove myself, I’m relaxing and enjoying life more.
- And I’m able to receive appreciation, and money – and enjoy it! No guilt, no shame, no doubt. No unsettling drop in the stomach.
I knew this level of freedom, enjoyment and ease was possible, but I never knew it could be this quick or simple to achieve.
Now I feel confident in what’s right for me, and respectful of what’s right for the other person.
Now I feel free to work the right amount for me instead of giving and giving so much.
Now I feel good in myself, no longer needing to change myself to please someone else.
And now I love helping others to remember their own freedom and enjoyment through the Mace Energy Method.
When you’re ready for this too, I can’t wait to help you.