Dear John,
I’ve seen how busy you are. I expect you’re dealing with a stream of questions from staff, continuing to improve behind-the-scenes systems, and also maintaining your own customer relationships. All while also wanting to be a great dad and partner.
Your commitment to all of this for so long is admirable, but I understand it also takes its toll. Disrupted sleep, dropped balls, disappointments, and disturbed family time. The pressure creates tension, which creates stress, and that starts to fracture relationships.
When you’re a man who rightfully cares about protecting and providing for the ones you love, it’s a difficult place to be.
I know you’ve tried compartmentalising work and home, but it never lasts. I know you tell yourself this is short-term until things are operating without you – but that day isn’t arriving. And I know you’re committed to being the best you can be, which creates an uncomfortable gap when you look at how things actually are. It can be hard to even look at that gap, so kudos to you if you can.
What you’ve probably noticed by now, is that your personal development has added in valuable ideas, concepts, approaches and tactics. But it’s not dealt with the underlying patterns.
No matter what you try, no matter how hard you try, those same patterns of over-working, over-thinking, and stressing keep following you everywhere. You know it makes no logical sense – and yet it keeps happening.
I get it, because this is true of every human I’ve ever met. And the reason is because most of what’s available in personal development doesn’t deal with the root cause.
The good news in all of this is that there is a solution. It’s one that requires your full engagement and desire for real change. And that last point is in fact why most people aren’t interested. Most people talk about wanting change. But when an opportunity for real, lasting change presents itself, they tend to turn away. They wonder who they’d be and how their life would look on the other side of that.
It’s a fair concern. If someone’s life is significantly out of alignment, then this work could lead to significant changes. However, in the same way a flower gradually transforms from small green shoot to a big bloom of flowers. So too, real change has a natural, gradual evolution. Ultimately, alignment that’s right for you will always feel good.
If you’re interested, keep reading and I’ll tell you more about this solution.
It’s a very practical solution that deals with the root cause of unwanted feelings, and negative experiences in life.
Where most solutions involve ‘talking about’ your experiences, this process circumvents talking, and therefore speeds up the journey from feeling how you do now, to feeling how you want to feel.
The real bonus of this solution that I see, is that there are no ongoing habits or practices required. In a world where people are adding more steps to their morning routine, stacking more supplements, and having to breathe and reframe before every conversation, this process removes the need for any activity like that which is currently acting as a crutch.
Once your leg is healed, you naturally put the crutches down.
So too with this. Once the source of your problem is resolved, you naturally stop doing anything that was acting as an emotional crutch.
The result on the other side of this is a life that feels lighter, easier, more peaceful, more grounded, and more purposeful.
My clients consistently tell me they feel unaffected by situations and people that used to trigger them. They get more effective and efficient. Their words land more clearly. They embody their authentic self more effortlessly.
Usually at this point I get two responses. One is scepticism that this is possible. The other is excitement that this is possible. Both are a fair response.
What I want you to know is that this is possible. My clients get these results all the time, and fast. (If you’re interested I can share case studies of what other clients have achieved.)
But what I also want you to know is that everyone’s journey is unique. Some clients only need the first four-week reset. Others continue longer-term.
Personally, I appreciate those who engage in the longer-term game. It’s the shift from an acute Emergency Room situation, into a conscious Health Club choice.
Whichever route, your trajectory is always upwards. Because, with every root cause we remove, your authenticity and grounded clarity elevates.
Ultimately you will choose how long you engage in this for. And that choice will be perfect for you.
If right now you want to learn what’s involved for getting started, let’s get into that.
You’ll begin with a four-week Leadership Reset. The promise of this is that we solve your highest priority problem right now. You will gain additional benefits too. Ones that we can’t predict in advance, but which are always good for you.
What’s required of you is that there’s something right now that you don’t like, and that you want to change.
We meet every week for those four weeks.
In the first week we set ourselves up with clarity about the purpose of your Leadership Reset. Plus you get to anchor in how you want life to feel and be at the end, and the difference this will make for you.
We then engage together with the process during weeks two and three. Before reviewing and closing in week four.
In addition to this we have messaging days. These provide the chance to ask questions and tell me how things are going.
Your investment for this next step in creating the life you want is £3600.
When you have a yes to this, we’ll schedule a conversation so I can answer any questions and clarify anything you need.
Consider the life you want, how that would feel, who you’d be with, the difference you’d be making.
Then decide if you want to make that your reality.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Best wishes,
Helen